From Accidental Living to Unlocked Purpose
Join the movement navigating to the headwaters. Discover purpose and experience the adventure of flowing with your true design.
Join the movement navigating to the headwaters. Discover purpose and experience the adventure of flowing with your true design.
We build careers, launch ventures, grow organizations, and pursue success. Yet there often comes a point when we pause and ask: "Is this what I was designed for?"
This moment of realization isn't a one-time event, but a recurring crossroads throughout our lives. Sometimes we see it coming, sometimes it catches us by surprise.
It's not about dissatisfaction with what you've achieved. Rather, a growing awareness that there might be a greater alignment between who you are and what you do – a purpose waiting to be uncovered and activated.
Everyone tells you that success requires bigger goals, better habits, more ambition, or the right coach. Those things have their place—but they're not where transformation begins.
At the core of who you are lies your headwaters—the source from which all meaningful productivity, lasting impact, and true satisfaction flow. This isn't just another self-improvement strategy. It's about discovering the purpose God uniquely designed you for.
Before you set another goal or create another habit, journey upstream to your source. When you start with purpose—your authentic reason for being—everything else flows naturally in the right direction.
Transform insights into clarity about your next steps. Like a river finding its path through the landscape, discover the direction that aligns with your true design. This isn't about creating a rigid plan—it's about finding your compass and learning to move with confidence in the direction you're meant to go.
Many people feel stuck, spinning their wheels in indecision, paralyzed by too many options or unclear about which path to take. Others meticulously craft five-year plans only to watch them crumble at life's first interruption. But direction isn't about forcing your way forward or controlling every outcome—it's about discovering where the current of your life naturally wants to flow when aligned with your purpose and design.
Through this process, you'll develop what we call "compass over coordinates"—a clear sense of direction that remains steady even when circumstances change. You'll learn to recognize divine interruptions as opportunities rather than obstacles, and move forward with the confidence that comes from knowing you're flowing with your design rather than against it.
You weren't accidentally made. Through guided discovery, uncover the patterns that reveal your authentic design—your motivations, personality, and the unique way God crafted you. This isn't about taking another test or inventing an identity. It's about discovering what already exists.
In a world obsessed with self-creation and personal branding, we offer something radically different: the freedom to discover rather than invent who you are. Your design—the intricate way you're wired to think, feel, and act—already exists. It's written into your story, revealed in your patterns, and confirmed by those who know you best.
Many people feel fragmented or confused about their identity, trying on different versions of themselves, never quite sure which one is real. But beneath the roles you play and the expectations you carry lies an authentic design waiting to be uncovered. Through our discovery process, you'll gain clarity on your core motivations, understand your unique patterns, and finally make sense of why you do what you do.
Most people have a profound sense that they were made for something more—something meaningful and lasting. Like salmon instinctively drawn upstream to their birthplace, you have deep longings pointing toward your purpose. At Anti-Accidental, we begin by helping you acknowledge and explore these God-given desires rather than suppressing them.
We believe desire isn't something to fear or avoid—it's a divine compass. As C.S. Lewis wrote, "It would seem that Our Lord finds our desires not too strong, but too weak." Through guided reflection and honest conversation, you'll uncover what truly drives you at your core, using these longings as the first step toward your headwaters.
The restlessness you feel isn't a problem to be solved—it's an invitation to journey deeper. Many spend their lives trying to silence this inner ache through achievement, distraction, or resignation, never realizing it's actually pointing them home. As Augustine discovered, our hearts remain restless until they find their rest in the One who made them. In our discovery process, we create space for you to finally listen to what your heart has been trying to tell you all along, tracing your desires back to their true source rather than settling for the shallow substitutes that never quite satisfy.
Most people have a profound sense that they were made for something more—something meaningful and lasting. Like salmon instinctively drawn upstream to their birthplace, you have deep longings pointing toward your purpose. At Anti-Accidental, we begin by helping you acknowledge and explore these God-given desires rather than suppressing them.
We believe desire isn't something to fear or avoid—it's a divine compass. As C.S. Lewis wrote, "It would seem that Our Lord finds our desires not too strong, but too weak." Through guided reflection and honest conversation, you'll uncover what truly drives you at your core, using these longings as the first step toward your headwaters.
The restlessness you feel isn't a problem to be solved—it's an invitation to journey deeper. Many spend their lives trying to silence this inner ache through achievement, distraction, or resignation, never realizing it's actually pointing them home. As Augustine discovered, our hearts remain restless until they find their rest in the One who made them. In our discovery process, we create space for you to finally listen to what your heart has been trying to tell you all along, tracing your desires back to their true source rather than settling for the shallow substitutes that never quite satisfy.
Transform insights into clarity about your next steps. Like a river finding its path through the landscape, discover the direction that aligns with your true design. This isn't about creating a rigid plan—it's about finding your compass and learning to move with confidence in the direction you're meant to go.
Many people feel stuck, spinning their wheels in indecision, paralyzed by too many options or unclear about which path to take. Others meticulously craft five-year plans only to watch them crumble at life's first interruption. But direction isn't about forcing your way forward or controlling every outcome—it's about discovering where the current of your life naturally wants to flow when aligned with your purpose and design.
Through this process, you'll develop what we call "compass over coordinates"—a clear sense of direction that remains steady even when circumstances change. You'll learn to recognize divine interruptions as opportunities rather than obstacles, and move forward with the confidence that comes from knowing you're flowing with your design rather than against it.
You weren't accidentally made. Through guided discovery, uncover the patterns that reveal your authentic design—your motivations, personality, and the unique way God crafted you. This isn't about taking another test or inventing an identity. It's about discovering what already exists.
In a world obsessed with self-creation and personal branding, we offer something radically different: the freedom to discover rather than invent who you are. Your design—the intricate way you're wired to think, feel, and act—already exists. It's written into your story, revealed in your patterns, and confirmed by those who know you best.
Many people feel fragmented or confused about their identity, trying on different versions of themselves, never quite sure which one is real. But beneath the roles you play and the expectations you carry lies an authentic design waiting to be uncovered. Through our discovery process, you'll gain clarity on your core motivations, understand your unique patterns, and finally make sense of why you do what you do.
A transformative 2.5-day intensive to jump-start your journey from accidental to purposeful
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Our premium coaching process to leaders discover purpose, understand patterns, and build plans for lasting impact
Anti-Accidental was born from one man's brush with death and the collective realization that life is too precious to live by accident.In July 2019, Dr. Mark Herringshaw's heart stopped beating for 23 minutes following a cardiac arrest. As medical professionals worked desperately to revive him, his family was told to prepare for the worst. With only a 1% chance of survival without significant brain damage, Mark's recovery was nothing short of miraculous.
But this near-death experience revealed something profound—Mark had been living with what he calls "a heart of stone." Despite decades of outward success in ministry and leadership, he recognized that parts of his life had been lived accidentally rather than with true intention and purpose."I died of a hardened heart," Mark often says, "not just physically, but spiritually and emotionally." This awakening became the catalyst for a deeper journey—one that would lead him to explore what it truly means to live with purpose and authentic design.
We approach this work not as distant experts who have it all figured out, but as fellow travelers who continue to discover our own purpose while guiding others. Each of us has experienced both the pain of misalignment and the freedom of purpose-directed living.Our story continues to unfold as we witness men reconnect with their true design, make decisions with newfound clarity, and create impact aligned with their unique calling. We believe every man has a purpose worth discovering—and that when men live according to their authentic design, not only do they flourish, but so do their families, organizations, and communities.
Anti-Accidental exists because we believe your life is too important to live by accident.
Headwaters Weekend: This transformative 2.5-day intensive is perfect for jumpstarting your journey to purpose. You'll experience our complete methodology in a condensed format, leaving with initial clarity and direction.
Anti-Accidental Cohort: Ideal if you thrive in community and desire ongoing support. This 12-month journey combines the Headwaters Weekend with monthly facilitated sessions and quarterly gatherings for sustained transformation.
1:1 Coaching: Our most personalized option provides dedicated guidance through 24 coaching sessions. Choose this path if you want accelerated results and customized application to your specific situation.
Still unsure? Schedule a free Discovery Call where we can discuss your context and recommend the best path forward. jumpstarting your journey and getting immediate clarity
Participants typically experience these outcomes:Clarity about purpose - Finally understanding the unique design God has given you
- Freedom from comparison - Recognizing your specific calling rather than measuring against others
- Confidence in decisions - Making choices aligned with who you're designed to be
- Practical next steps - Concrete plans that move you from insight to action
- Community support - Connection with others on a similar journey
- Renewed energy - Rediscovering joy and passion for your work and lifeMany describe the experience as "finally having language for what I've always sensed about myself" and report significant shifts in both their professional impact and personal fulfillment.
Anti-Accidental serves Christians in all vocations who want to discover and live out their God-given purpose. Our participants include business leaders, entrepreneurs, ministry directors, non-profit executives, educators, healthcare professionals, and more.
We believe every Christian is called to ministry—whether that's in the marketplace, education, healthcare, home, or traditional church settings. Our methodology helps you discover how your unique design contributes to God's Kingdom work in your specific context.
Yes, currently our programs are designed specifically for men. We've structured our retreats, cohorts, and coaching to address the unique challenges and contexts that men face in discovering and living out their purpose.
However, we recognize the tremendous need for this work among women as well. We're actively developing Anti-Accidental programs specifically designed for women, with plans to launch women's cohorts, retreats, and coaching options in the near future.
If you're a woman interested in Anti-Accidental, we encourage you to join our waiting list to be among the first to know when our women's programs launch. We're committed to providing the same transformative experience while honoring the distinct ways women may approach purpose discovery and implementation.
For couples interested in the journey together, please contact us directly to discuss options for parallel participation as we develop our full offerings.
Motivation Code (MCODE) is a narrative-based assessment that uncovers your unique motivational pattern—how you naturally move from inspiration to fulfillment. Unlike personality tests that categorize you, MCODE reveals your specific "motivation flow" by analyzing stories of achievement from your own life.
We use MCODE as a key component in our Headwaters phase to help you discover the source of your purpose. By understanding your core motivations, you gain insight into the types of activities and contexts where you'll naturally thrive. This becomes a foundation for aligning your life and work with your God-given design.In today's fast-paced world, it's easy to lose sight of what truly motivates us, leading to a lack of fulfillment and direction in both personal and professional lives. Traditional personality tests often offer generic insights that don't get to the heart of what makes you tick. They can leave you with more questions than answers, making it difficult to make informed decisions about your career, relationships, and life goals. Motivation Code (MCode) is a revolutionary narrative-based personality assessment tool designed to solve this problem. By analyzing your own life stories, it uncovers the core motivations that drive you. Backed by 60 years of empirical research, Motivations AI provides actionable insights that can transform how you engage with the world, making you more productive, inspired, and fulfilled. It's not just a personality test; it's a key to unlocking a more meaningful life.
Three key distinctions set us apart:We start with your design, not just your goals. Rather than beginning with what you should do, we help you understand who you're designed to be.
We integrate biblical wisdom with practical application. Our approach bridges spiritual discernment with strategic implementation, helping you move from "What is God calling me to?" to "How do I faithfully walk this out?"
Our proven process creates a memorable framework that participants continue to use long after completing our programs.Unlike many programs that focus primarily on Bible study or general leadership principles, Anti-Accidental helps you discover your specific God-given design and translate that into purposeful impact.
Major transitions—career changes, empty nesting, retirement planning, ministry shifts—are often precisely when God is inviting deeper discernment. Our process helps you hear God's voice more clearly during these pivotal moments.
Many participants find that gaining clarity about God's design helps them navigate transitions with more confidence, peace, and faithful obedience. Rather than making decisions based on urgency or opportunity alone, you'll develop a framework for choices aligned with your purpose.
We believe discovering your God-given purpose is too important to be limited by financial constraints. Here's how we make Anti-Accidental accessible:
Payment Plans: All our programs offer flexible payment options, allowing you to spread the investment over time. The Headwaters Weekend can be split into two payments, while our longer programs offer monthly installment plans.
Group Rates: If you have friends, colleagues, or a church group interested in joining together, we offer special group rates that make the journey more affordable for everyone.
Scholarships: We set aside a limited number of partial scholarships for each program cycle. These are awarded based on both financial need and ministry impact potential.
Church Partnerships: For pastors and ministry leaders, we sometimes work with churches to co-invest in their leadership development. Ask if your church might support part of your journey.
We encourage you to view this not as an expense but as an investment in your God-given calling and future impact. Many participants report that the clarity they gained saved them years of misdirected effort and resources, proving invaluable in the long run.
Contact us to discuss your specific situation—we're committed to finding a solution that works for you.
Our Anti-Accidental Promise: Fully engage for 90 days and if you don't see clear progress, we'll refund your investment plus $500 to invest in your growth elsewhere.
Your journey begins with these simple steps:
1. Schedule a free Discovery Call
2. Choose your program path
3. Complete initial assessments
4. Begin your transformation
During your Discovery Call, we'll answer any questions, help you determine which path is right for you, and outline exactly what to expect as you begin this life-changing journey.
